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City Council Packet - 03/21/1983 TIGARD CITY COUNCIL PUBLIC NOTICE: Anyone wishing to speak on an SPECIAL MEETING AGENDA agenda item needs to sign on the appropriate MARCH 21, 1983, 7:30 P.M. sign-up sheet(s) . If no sheet is available, CITY HALL ask to be recognized by the Chair. Non-agenda items are asked to be kept to 2 minutes or less and are heard at the discretion of the Chair. 1. SPECIAL MEETING: Call To Order and Roll Call 2. CONSENT AGENDA: These items are considered to be routine and may be enacted in one motion without separate discussion. Anyone may request that an item be removed for discussion and separate action. Motion to: 2.1 Approve OLCC Application As Follows: o The Stadium Club (formerly Tortilla Machine), 11445 S.W. Pacific Hwy. Tigard, Oregon 3. ADOPT SUPPLEMENTAL BUDGET Public Hearing and Adopt FY 82-83 o Public Hearing Opened o Summation by City Administrator o Public Testimony o Public Hearing Closed o Consideration/action by Council r o RESOLUTION NO. 83- 28 A Resolution approving the Supplemental € Budget for the Fiscal Year ending June 30, 1983. o RESOLUTION NO. 83- 29 A Resolution changing appropriations for the Fiscal Year ending June 30, 1983. 4. COUNCIL WORKSHOP DISCUSSION 5.1 Ground Rules 5.2 Goals and Priorities o City Administrator 5. PERFORMANCE REVIEW OF CITY ADMINISTRATOR (EXECUTIVE SESSION) The Tigard City Council will go into Executive Session under ORS 192.660 (1)(d) to consider issues related to Labor Relations o City Administrator 6. ADJOURN i (0316A) TIGARD CITY C O U N C I L SPECIAL MEETING MINUTES - MARCH 21, 1.983 - 7:30 P.M. 1. Meeting Called to Order by Mayor Bishop at 7:40 P.M. at City Hall Conference Hall ROLL CALL: Present: Mayor Wilbur Bishop; Councilors Tom Brian, John Cook, Kenneth Scheckla (arrived at 8:10 P.M.) , Ima Scott; Bob Jean, City Administrator; Dave Baker, Times; Tom Gaunt, Oregonian; Geraldine Ball and Bob Bledsoe. 2. Motion to adopt Consent Agenda (OLCC Application for Stadium Club) and reviewing Public Officials Caucus meeting notice from City of Beaverton by Councilor Brian, seconded by Councilor Cock. Approved by unanimous vote of Council present. 3. 82-83 SUPPLEMENTAL BUDGET PUBLIC HEARING (a) Public Hearing Opened (b) No Public Testimony (c) Public Hearing Closed (d) Motion by Councilor Brian, seconded by Councilor Scott to approve Resolution Tido. 83-28, 82-83 SUPPLL4E.NTAL BUDGET Approved by unanimous vote of Council present. MOTE: Councilor Scheckla arrived at 8:10 P.M. 4. FINANCE DIRECTOR CONSULTATION by City Administrator with Council. (a) Council discussed: Candidates #1 and #2. The Interview Committee's recommendation for candidate #1 and the Administrator's recommendation of his appointment of candidate #1; starting monthly salary level below $30,000/year equivalent; no moving expenses unless outside 300 mile distance. Councilor Scheckla emphasized the need to relocate in Tigard within one year. Councilor Scott questioned the need for the position as proposed. (b) Discussion followed. (r.) Mayor Bishop asked for a motion. (d) Councilor Cook moved to support the City Administrator's recommended appointment of candidate #1. Seconded by Councilor Brian• Motion carried with 3 Yeas (Cook, Brian and Bishop) 2 Nays (Scott and ( Scheckla) . 4 PAGE i - COUNCIL MINUTES - MARCH 21, 1983 5. COUNCIL WORKSHOP 5.1 Discussion of Council Groundrules (a) Notion by Councilor Cook to approve Groundrules as amended, seconded by Councilor Brian. Approved by unanimous vote of Council present. 5.2 Goals and Priorities. No discussion. (a) notion by Councilor Cook to approve Goals and Priorities list of 1020183, seconded by Councilor Scott. Approved by unanimous vote of Council present. 5.3 Discussion of City Personnel rules was asked for by City Administrator Bob Jean due to recent inquiry by Councilor Scott. (a) Discussion followed regarding possible amendments to sections 1.1 and 1.4 of the Personnel Rules. Councilor Scott wanted copies of certain Personnel File materials provided to the Council. City Administrator Bob Jean explained his inability under the rules to provide the requested information under the rules. (b) Consensus agreement was for the Administrator to bring back a Resolution clarifying the Council's access to certain Personnel File information. Council recessed for a bree,.: at 9:45 P.M. Reconvened at 10:00 P-9- 6. Executive Session per ORS 192.660 (1) (d) to evaluate the performance of the City Administrator. NOTE: Councilor Cook had to leave at 11:00 P.n. 7. ADJOURNMENT: 11:45 P.M. w City Adm istrator - City of Tigard ATTEST: Mayor - City of Tigard PAGE 2 - COUNCIL MINUTES - MARCH 21, 1983 MEMORANDUM March 16, 1983 TO: City Administrator/City Council FROM: Chief of Police SUBJECT: OLCC Renewal RE: THE STADIUM CLUB (formerly the Tortilla Machine) 11445 S.W. Pacific Highway, Tigard, Or. 97223 Sir: It is recommended that this O.L.C.C. renewal request be approved, and forwarded to OLCC. There is no status change involved in this renewal request. Respectfully, � R.B. Adams Chief of Police RBA:ac 1 Avoicl Verbal Messages A-i CITY OF TIGARD To:_ Chief Adams From :V Doris Hartig Subject: OLCC License Renewal Date : March 10 1983 Please review and have recommendation to us by Wednesday, March 16th so we may include it in the packets for the March 21st Council meeting. Thank you. DA - The Stadium Club (formerly Tortilla Machine) OLCC approved the trade name change 11445 SW Pacific Highway on 11/22/82, but paperwork had not Tigard, OR 97223 come through at the time this renewal application arrived in the mail. Their representative from VIP Restaurants will attend the 3/21 Council meeting, in case there are any questions. t l a �r MEMORANDUM March 16, 1983 TO: City Administrator/City Council FROM: Chief of Police SUBJECT: OLCC Renewal RE: THE STADIUM CLUB (formerly the Tortilla Machine) 11445 S.W. Pacific Highway, Tigard, Or. 97223 Sir: It is recommended that this O.L.C.C. renewal request be approved, and ( forwarded to OLCC. T There is no status change involved in this renewal request. j f P t� 6 r� p E Respectfully, � R.B. Adams Chief of Police x FE 4 RBA:ac i s E iANK 7®1YBst�l� siv e® J� - Oregon Liquor Control Commission VicrOH 010K OOVEIrCR P.O. BOX 22297, 9079 S.E. McLOUGHLIN BLVD., PORTLAND, OREGON 97222 November 22, 1982 __I_ VIP's Restaurants , Inc. — TELEPHONE 503/585-6221 11445 SW Pacific Highway Tigard , Oregon 97223 STEVEN V. JOHNSON CORPORATE COUNSEL Remodeling Approval 250 LIBERTY STREET S.E. P.O.BOX 2508 SALEM,OREGON 97308 The Stadium Club VIP ' S RESTAURANTS . INC . 11445 SW Pacific Highway Tigard , Oregon Gentlemen : The Licensing Committee of the OLCC has considered your request to remodel the above premises . You may consider this letter your authority to proceed with premi- ses remodeling as per plans on file with the Commission . Upon completion of remodeling, contact the license investigator in your area for an inspection . In addition , the change of trade name from the Tortilla Machine to the Stadium Club is approved. In conjunction with your remodeling _ and format changes , several other changes are noted. There will be a net loss of five seats r in your lounge. Your menu has been expanded to include more Amer- ican entrees in addition to your Mexican menu. Your hours of op- eration have been expanded . Our records now show your business will be open as follows: --- t Restaurant Lounge Monday-Friday: 11:00 a.m. to 11:00 p.m. 11 :00 a.m, to 2 :00 a.m . Saturday 5 :00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m. to 2 :00 a.m . Sunday: 5 :00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. 10:00 a.m, to 10 :00 p .m . s ul Y, G. Iger Director License Divisio ca:J `, n . AGR:BP:lg/383313 "'k- AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY EMPLOYER ROBERT W. JEAN PROGRESS EVALUATION e MANAGEMENT TEAM AND COMMUNICATIONS (2-WAY, ESP. IN PD) -- e Police Department Annual Report andBudget Presentations. . . e Management Training (Work Programs, Safety, Time Management, Policy and Procedures, Performance Evaluation, Management Model ) . . . e Unit Clarification. . . (Captain/Lt./Sgts. . .Office Manager) . . . e DEPARTMENTAL PERFORMANCE EVALUATIONS -- e Annual Reports. . . e Department Head Performance Evaluations. . . e Work Programs. . . e Productivity By Objectives (P.B.O. ) . . . e Performance Measures in FY 83-84 Budget. . . e SPACE NEEDS II -- e Rental Options Baseline Analysis. . . e Financial Alternative Analysis. . . e Questionnaire. . . e Lease/Purchase Option (June?) . . . ( • LID POLICY AND CODE AMENDMENT -- e Comprehensive Plan. . . e Discussion Draft. . . e ONGOING ROLE OF NPO'S; BOARD AND COMMITTEE INVOLVEMENT -- a CIP. . . e Parks and Open Space Plan. . . s LCDC Hearings. . . e Post Acknowledgement and Maintenance. . . e Annual Meetings with Council . . . e REPORTS ON CATV -- e Monthly Reports. . . e Progress Map. . . o Greenriver Ordinance Amendment. . . e PARKS AND OPEN SPACE PLAN -- e Comprehensive Plan. . . e Flood Plain Policy. . . s Bikepaths. . . e REPORTS AND PRESENTATIONS -- a 72nd LID Update Chart. . . e Monthly Reports and Update. . . e Annual Reports and Budget Presentations. . . e Slides, Flip Charts, Overhead Projectors, Maps. . . . . . Continued . . . ROBERT W. JEAN PROGRESS EVALUATION PAGE TWO • POLICY OPTIONS -- Urban Services. . . • 5-Year Financial Plan. . . s Flood Plain. . . s Legal Services. . . • FY 83-84 Budget. . . e 72nd AVENUE LID -- e Monthly Progress Reports and Chart. . . • Daily Staff Inspection. . . • Contract Administration (Pothole Issue) . . . • Safety Striping. . . s Engineering Services Report. . . • WATER STUDY -- • Supply via Portland and Lake Oswego Contracts. . . 6 Press and Newsletters. . . (Despite "Politics") . . . • Rate Increase (25% Predicted). . . • UNI014 CONTRACTS -- € a TPOA. . . ("Truce" vs. Binding Arbitration) . . . • TMEA. . . (Salary Freeze. . .TMEA vs. OPEU) . . . • Benefits Task Force. . . s Pay Pian Survey. . . • Salary and Compensation Policy • COMPREHENSIVE PLAN -- s NPO/CCI/Planning Commission Process. . . • Word Processing and Printing Turn-Around. . . e Comprehensive Plan Text and Maps. . . e Draft Development Code and Interim Zoning Map. . . • Urban Plannina Area Agreement • CONSISTENT CODE ENFORCEMENT -- s Monthly Codes Enforcement Report. . . • Sign Code Housekeeping Ordinance. . . • DOWNTOWN PLAN AND IMPLEMENTATION STRATEGY -- • CBD Plan and Zoning Designation. . . e National Mainstreet U.S.A. Membership. . . e "Let's Light Up Tigard Committee" Support. . . • T.U.R.A. . . e ECONOMIC DEVELOPMENT STRATEGY -- • Comprehensive Pian Element. . . e Economic Development Steering Committee. . . • COST CONTAINMENT (LEGAL FEES ESP. ) -- e Control Budget. . . s Staff Associate. . . • Budget Options for FY 83-84. . . • Fees and Charges. . . e Quarterly Financials. . . a Benefits Task Force. . . wM ® Z ROBERT W. JEAN PROGRESS EVALUATION PAGE THREE e OTHERS -- e Urban Services Study Committee. . . e 5-year Financial Plan and Cut-Back Options. . . ® Productivity Increase of 15% in FY 82-83 and 8% for FY 83-84 (Proposed Budget for Maintenance of Service Levels) . . . • Goals and Priorities Update. . . • Council Groundrules Update. . . e Benefits Task Force and Recommendation. . . • Questionnaire and Poll . . . • Finance Director/City Recorder Split. . . • T.E.A.M. Committee. . . • Productivity By Objectives (P.B.O. ) . . . e A. I .M.S. Committee. . . e Ballot Measure #3/12% Impact Analysis. . . e Storm Drainage/Impervious Surfaces Fee. . . • Bond Sale #1 and #2. . . e Liability Insurance Review and Renewal . . . • Mrs. Ball 's Questions. . . e Consulting Engineering Selection Process. . . e Plaid Pantry Liquor Licenses on Hall . . . t e Housing Authority Workshop. . . l I INS! 11 BEAVERTON March 18, 1983 Jack Nelson Mayor Dear Fellow Public Officials: Discussion topics for the March 24th Washington County Public Officials Caucus will include the following: - Communicating with our Legislatures - Economic Development - Cable Television update As a reminder, the meeting will begin at 7:30 p.m. Thursday, March 24 at the Beaverton Operations Center. If you have not yet done so, please notify my Assistant, Blair Crumpacker, (644-2191, ext. 204; of whether you will attend. I look forward to seeing you there. egards, yJackNelson JN:kp City of Beaverton a 4950 B.W. Hail Boulevard w Beaverton,Oregon 97005 • (503)644-2191 A; CITYOFTIGARD CITY OF TIGARD, OREGON WASHINGTON COUNTY.OREGON MANAGEMENT and PROFESSIONAL EMPLOYEE PERFORMANCE REVIEW EMPLOYEE BOB JEAN DATE MARCH 21, 1983 =OSITION CITY ADMINISTRATOR REVIEW PERIOD 9/82 - 2/83 :EPART 9ENT CITY ADMINISTRATIONLAST REVIEW 8/82 EWER CURRENT SAI,ARY $40,000/year T'fP-c OF CURRENT REVIEW: PROBATION ANNUAL PROGRESS XXX GGra/VcB;L GO�'$66$ 1 . TpTi�6S... MAJOR GOALS/PROJECTS FROM LAST REVIEW: SATISFACTORY COMPLETION %: o Management Team & Communications �S o Departmental Performance Evaluations k", o Space Needs Ii 0 LID Policy and Code Amendment o Ongoing Role of.NPO's, Boards & Committees o CATV Reports & Progress e7 3t- AktrA5� o Parks and Open Space / 10 • Reports and Presentations o Policy Options c 72nd LID Progress pJZ0#C 0 Water Study ;4 o Union Contracts o Comprehensive Plan 3�G o Codes Enforcement Downtown Plan & Implementation Strategy o Economic Development Strategy o Cost Containment (Legas Fees esp.) o Other Projects as Needed ESTABLISHED PERFORMANCE DIMENSIONS: (CIRCLE) (!=Unsatisfactory; 2=Needs Improvement; 3=Satisfactory; 4=Good; 5=Excellent) o Oral communications i! 1 - 2 -0 4 - 5 o Written communications i 1 - 2 - 3 4 - o Leadership/initiative >* 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5j o Problem solving/decision making 1 - 2 3 - - 5 o Innovation/ingenuity/creativity 1 - 2 - 3 -<4 - 5 O Planning/organizing 1 - 2 3 4 5 O Interpersonal sensitivity 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 5 o Management control -IF 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 o Adaptability/flexibility/stress tolerance 1 - 2 - ��'- 5 o Resource utilization/economy 1 - 23 - 4 - 5 L o Council Relations 1 - 2 3 - 4 - 5 0 1 - 2 3 - 4 - 5 NOTES ON STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES: --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------- ---- FOR OFFICE USE ONLY ------------ --------------------_- ---------------•------------------•--------------------------------------------- ---------------------—�*- EPR COMPLETED PAF COMPLETED NEXT REVIEW p DATE EPR RET DATE PRF PIF C. S. & G. ATE EPR PIF SIGNATURE 3. EMPLOYEE TRAINING/SELF DEVELOPMENT -- LAST REVIEW PERIOD: o LOC Conference o Area Managers Meetings o LGPI Seminars on Personnel Administration & Labor Relations o Purchasing Seminar o PBO Seminar o Planner's conference q. EMPLOYEE TRAINING/PLANS FOR IMPROVEMENT -- NEXT REVIEW PERIOD: o Spring Oregon/Washington Manager's Conference S. MAJOR GOALS/PROJECTS FOR NEXT REVIEW PERIOD: p PBO PROGRAM... p Space Needs II... p LID Policy & Code Amendment... O Parks & Open Space Flan (Spring'84 Levy or Bond?)... O Comprehensive Plan & Development Code to LCDC... p Codes Enforcement (w/in Resources)... p Economic Development Plan & Implementation Strategy (esp. Triangle)... O Downtown Plan & Implementation Strategy (Including Alts. to Tax Increment & TURA Financials)... O A.I.M.S. & Finance Progress Reports... O TMEA/OPEU Contract... 0 Performance Evaluations/Merit System... O Monitor CATV & Reports... O Complete 72nd LID; Start Ash-Pacific & Dartmouth LIDs... 0 Intergovernmental Relations (esp. with Washington County)... 0 6. SUPERVISOR'S HELP NEEDED: 7. GENERAL COMMENTS (EMPLOYEE OR SUPERVISOR) : 8. ACTION RECOMMENDED -- Progress review for coaching purposes only... ---------------------- i NEXT REVIEW DATE 8/83 ACTION APPROVED: MERIT REVIEW i i EMPLOYE (Signature/Date) ! i E � REV ER (Signature/Date) i (Signat e/Date) } APPROVED BY n�Q� I (Signature/Daze! 3 PUBLIC NOTICE CITY OF TIGARD SECOND NOTICE NOTICE OF SUPPLEMENTAL BUDGET HEARING A public hearing on the approved supplemental budget for the City of Tigard for the fiscal year 1982-83 will beheld on March 21, 1983 at 7: 30 p.m. at Fowler Junior High School, Lecture Room, 10865 S.W. Walnut Street , Tigard, Oregon, 97223. The Budget document may be inspected or copies obtained by interested persons at the office of the City Recorder, located at Tigard City Hall, 12755 S.W. Ash Avenue (corner of Ash and Burnham) , between the hours of 8:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. Any person may appear at the public hearing on the supplemental budget, and discuss the budget or any part of it. The total net requirements for the supplemental budget represent $98,029 and there is no tax levy change. WILBUR A. BISHOP, MAYOR City of Tigard Washington County, Oregon TT Publish March 10, 1983 t IN t I PUBLIC NOTICE CITY OF 'IIGARD, OREGON NOTICE OF SUPPLEMENTAL BUDGE-1 HEARING A public hearing on a proposed supplemental budget for the City of Tigard for the fiscal year 1982-83 will be held on March 21 , 1983, at 7: 30 p.m. at Fowler Junior High School, Lecture Room, 10865 S.W. Walnut Street, Tigard , Oregon, 97223. The budget document may be inspected or copies obtained by interested persons at the office of the City Recorder, located at Tigard City Hall , 12755 S.W. Ash Avenue (corner of Ash and Burnham) , between the hours of 8:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. Any person may appear at the public hearing on the supplemental budget , and discuss the budget or any part of it. WILBUR A. BISHOP, MAYOR City of Tigard Washington County, Oregon CITY OF TIGARD, OREGON SUPPLEMENTAL BUDGET FINANCIAL SUMMARY FOR THE FISCAL YEAR 1982-83 DEBT SERVICE FUND RESOURCES Collection on Assessments $98,029 REQUIREMENTS Debt Service Expenditures for Interest Bancroft Bond #13 $ 325. Bancroft Zond #14 5235. Bancroft Bond #15 26672. Bancroft Bond #15 65797. Total Interest $982029 Tigard Times Publish 3/3/83 r v COUNCIL GROUNDRULES 1 Communications Between Councilors , City Administrator and Staff 1 i � ,1t -`- Councilors are encouraged to maintain open communications with the City �lK'� r Administrator, both as a group and individually in one-on-one sessions. . . ti - Councilors are encouraged to direct inquiries through the City Administrator, giving as much information as possible to ensure a thorough i response.. . In the absence of the City Administrator, Councilors are encouraged to contact the Department Head, realizing that the Department Head will discuss any such inquiries with the City Administrator. . . -- Contacts below the Department Head are to be discouraged due to the possible disruption of work, confusion on priorities, and limited scope of response.. . -- Unwritten communications are to be treated by the Administration as "advisory" only. . .Issues requiring action or follow-up by the Council as a _ whole should be submitted to Administration in writing. . . - Councilors should not expect immediate answers (e.g. , on-the-spot or even next week) unless a less than thorough answer or qualified analysis is -- acceptable. . . Everyone needs to recognize agenda cycle and 10-day cut-off.. .Add-ons to s be minimized, and handouts distributed at start of meeting, except Executive Sessions. . . -- Staff will attempt to schedule items assuming the longer timelines or assuming second reading of ordinances. . . Don't assume Staff is guilty until proven innocent. . . Communications Among Councilors -- Try to avoid surprises or "plops", especially it they appear intended to embarrass or discredit. . .Councilors and Staff should try to prepare in advance of public meetings and get issues into packets. . .If a "plop" is dropped, its ok for 'victim" (Council or Staff) to ask to have the item tabled... Add-on-Agenda items are not "plops", but should be brought up at start of meeting and generally considered only if continuing to a later agenda is not appropriate. . . -- Councilors are encouraged to suggest agenda topics at the bench or to contact the City Administrator about scheduling an item into the Tentative Agenda. .. Requests for legislative action of Counc may be initiated by any individual Councilor and responded to byd44� consistent with resources and priorities;br referred to Council as a whole. . . . . -- Try to avoid tridden agendas. . . -- Try to qualify "Yes" vs. "No" on procedural issues. . . -- "Safe" votes should be clarified amongst Councilors privately. . . -- "No" votes should be explained, if not part of discussion. . . s -- A motion to table is preferable to a forced or uninformed vote. . . -- A "point of order" is always in order and may be used by Council (or # Staff) to stop "cheap shots" or counter-productive actions. . . } i Communications with the Community/General Public -- Councilors and General Public need to be reminded of the Agenda cycle, cut-off dates, general "need-to-know" of how public issues are handled and how citizen input may be accomplished. . . -- "Official" communications should come through City Hall and be provided or the Administrator. . .Direct submittals or inquiries to the Council or individual Councilors should be referred to the Administration, ori Councilors may ask the Administration to look into an issue. . . -- 'State of C t " ri hould be the result of dicussions with Staff and CouncilorsP , tviewed as City policy. . - -- Official "press releases" should be encouraged, both to ensure accurate reporting and to advise Councilors and Staff of the official position communicated to press. . . -- Never get upset about what you read or hear in the press. Assume everyone is misquoted. . .Don't respond to the press or get upset about what someone supposedly said until you ask the person who supposedly said it. . . General -- A •ve m r i3rari ly/be d - - . Councilors are always Councilors in the eyes of the Administration, never just private citizens. . . -- Communications from spouses of Councilors will be viewed by the Administration as if from the Councilor. . . Infia�-- ian�0� u�cilor w' -viewed by the I res o - -- Information that "affects" the Council should -go to Council. The City Administrator is to decide on "grey areas", but too much information is referable to too little. . . -- Council "Information Only" items will be transmitted either by mail or in a separate envelope with agenda packet -- not as part of official record. . . r -- Performance evaluation criterion should be set at start of review period, not just before the review. .. -- If Councilors get involved in labor relations (e.g. , employee contacts or public statements) while staff is negotiating, then the process become the Councilor's to negotiate.. . -- Budget cuts mean policy decisions. Budgets will not be cut "piece meal" or "across-the-board", rather should be made in service or program areas, giving Staff full opportunity to provide data clearly defining impact. . . Use Request for Action form for "pothole" problems. Other concerns or] items should be set for an agenda by contacting City Administrator or by motion of Council. . . -- ti January 20, 1983 GOALS AND PRIORITIES ( ✓ ) PROGRESSING, BUT STILL NEEDS EMPHASIS. . . COUNCIL AND ADMINISTRATION FINANCE AND ADMINISTRATION 4. 5 /Council and Advisory Board Relationships 4.5 Labor Relations .-Annual Coal Review Workshop (until routine) ,,Classification and Compensation Policy .,,Management System Organization Productivity Accountability 4_O •�Orchae s Budget Workshop ,-Purchasing Cost Consciousness Fees and Charges Taxes 4.0 ✓Civic Center Personnel System - ✓GoaLs , Work Programs and Merit System Labor Negotiators ..,policy Options and Analysis ✓Service Levels _ 3.5 &.-Total Compensation Policy ✓Volunteerism -'Capital Improvement Plan Intragovernmental (Internal) Communications ✓Contingency Reserve Council Training Vacation Policy i Meeting Rules Fact Sheet Finances 3.5 -Philosophy of Government 3.0 Debt Management Pacific Highway Computers and EDP Technology Newsletter Code Change Audit Press and Media Relations l Financial_ Analysis Contracting Out LIBRARY s 4 3.0 -Community Relations 4.5 ✓Comparison With Other Cities i Intergovernmental Coordination 4.0 ,/-Space Needs Council and Board Relations Appropriate Technology ; 2. 5 City Attorney 3. 5 Growth Impact Purchasing 3.0 ✓Cable TV t Pride in Library i Library Services Hours of Operation ' i i 2. 5 Municipal Reference Library 1 Visibility 4 2_0 Social/Cultural/Arts I i€ 4: Ulf COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT PUBLIC SAFETY 4. 5 -Comprehensive Plan Versus NPO Plans 4 . 5 ,Union Contract Density Police Department Image Targeted Police Services 4.0 -Downtown Revitalization -Street/Arterial System 4.0 . ICAP .Sewer System ✓Police Department Space Needs ✓Park Plan ✓Crime Prevention 6 Community Relations ✓Parks Coordination with Law Enforcement ./Industrial Development Agencies ✓Community Involvement Police Staffing and Growth impact Code Enforcement Dispatching Growth Management Coordination Tracy Report Versus Chief's Response Fleet Management Safety Valve Municipal Judge 3.5 --Pedestrian Ways/Bikeways Police Radio Transmitter ✓Public Facilities Planning within Urban Growth Bounds 3.5 Public Safety Resource ✓Cable Communications/Cable TV School District Coordination ✓Local Improvement Districts (LID's) :.lice Reporting .-Economic Development Expanding Role of Police Department ✓Capital Improvement Plan and Program Alarm Response Planning Director Equipment Replacement Policy Street Lighting Policy Alternatives Traffic Signs and Signals Computers and EDP Technology Sign Code Report Writing Building Department Municipal Court Street Light Outages and Traffic Municipal Court Versus District Court Light Malfunctions Citings Beautification 3.0 Fire Districts Coordination 3.0t.-Recreation ;-_ght Bard ✓Evaluate Feasibility/Desirability of Three Water Districts in Tigard 's 2.5 Tri-Met Coordination UCB Becoming City Department ✓Senior Center 2.0 ✓Evaluate Feasibility/Desirability of: Building Height Limits Tigard Fire Department Chamber of Commerce 0.--mmunity Develop. Block Grant (CDBG) Engineering Cook Park Planning Commission Minutes Main Street Parking _Added by the Park Board only: -'Greenway Development and Acquisition ✓Park Development and Acquisition 2.5 Janitorial Services COUNCIL GROUNDRULES Communications Between Councilors, City Administrator and Staff -- Councilors are encouraged to maintain open communications with the City Administrator, both as a group and individually in one-on-one sessions. . . -- Councilors are encouraged to direct inquiries through the City Administrator, giving as much information as possible to ensure a thorough response. . . -- In the absence of the City Administrator, Councilors are encouraged to contact the Department Head, realizing that the Department Head will discuss any such inquiries with the City Administrator. . . -- Contacts below the Department Head are to be discouraged due to the possible disruption of work, confusion on priorities, and limited scope of response. . . -- Unwritten communications are to be treated by the Administration as "advisory" only. . .issues requiring action or follow-up by the Council as a whole should be submitted to Administration in writing. . . -- Councilors should not expect immediate answers (e.g. , on-the-spot or even next week) unless a less than thorough answer or qualified analysis is acceptable. . . -- Everyone needs to recognize agenda cycle and 10-day cut-off. . .Add-ons to be minimized, and handouts distributed at start of meeting, except Executive Sessions. . . -- Staff will attempt to schedule items assuming the longer timelines or assuming second reading of ordinances. . . -- Don't assume Staff is guilty until proven innocent. . . Communications Among Councilors -- Try to avoid surprises or "plops", especially it they appear intended to embarrass or discredit. . .Councilors and Staff should try to prepare in advance of public meetings and get issues into packets. . .If a "plop" is dropped, its ok for "victim" (Council or Staff) to ask to have the item tabled. . . -- Add-on-Agenda items are not "plops", but should be brought up at start of meeting and generally considered only if continuing to a later agenda is not appropriate. . . -- Councilors are encouraged to suggest agenda topics at the bench or to contact the City Administrator about scheduling an item into the Tentative Agenda. . . -- Requests for legislative action of Council may be initiated by any individual Councilor and responded to by Staff consistent with resources and priorities or referred to Council as a whole. . . -- Try to avoid hidden agendas. . . -- Try to qualify "Yes" vs. "Ivo" on procedural issues. . . -- "Safe" votes should be clarified amongst Councilors privately. . . -- "No" votes should be explained, if not part of discussion. . . -- A motion to table is preferable to a forced or uninformed vote. . . -- A "point of order" is always in order and may be used by Council (or Staff) to stop "cheap shots" or counter-productive actions. . . Communications with the Community/General Public -- Councilors and General Public need to be reminded of the Agenda cycle, cut-off dates, general "need-to-know" of how public issues are handled and hjw citizen input may be accomplished. . . -- "Official" communications should come through City Hall and be provided to the Administrator. . .Direct submittals or inquiries to the Council or individual Councilors should be referred to the Administration, or Councilors may ask the Administration to look into an issue. . . -- "State of City" address should be the result of dicussions with Staff and Councilors as it may be viewed as City policy. . . -- Official "press releases" should be encouraged, both to ensure accurate reporting and to advise Councilors and Staff of the official position communicated to press. . . -- Never get upset about what you read or hear in the press. Assume everyone is misquoted. . .Don't respond to the press or get upset about what someone supposedly said until you ask the person who supposedly said it. . . General -- Administrative information provided to one Councilor will ordinarily be provided to all. . . -- Councilors are always Councilors in the eyes of the Administration, never just private citizens. . . -- Communications from spouses of Councilors will be viewed by the Administration as if from the Councilor. . . -- Information of interest to one Councilor will generally be viewed by the Administration as of interest to all Councilors. . . -- Information that "affects" the Courcil should go to Council. The City Administrator is to decide on "grey areas", but too much information is preferable to too little. . . -- Council "Information Only" items will be transmitted either by mail or in a separate envelope with agenda packet -- not as part of official record. . . -- Requests by individual Councilors are to be treated by the Administration as "Advisory Only". . . -- Performance evaluation criterion should be set at start of review period, not just before the review. . . i -- If Councilors get involved in labor relations (e.g. , -mployee contacts or public statements) while staff is negotiating, then the process becomes x the Councilor's to negotiate. . . -- Budget cuts mean policy decisions. Budgets will not be cut "piece meal" or "across-the-board", rather should be made in service or program areas, ' giving Staff full opportunity to provide data clearly defining impact. . . -- Use Request for Action form for "pothole" problems. Other concerns or items should be set for an agenda by contacting City Administrator or by motion of Council. . . F EhE R 6 / L 1, (t f jC !sCC S. ®tea ®M ��.�.....�e A MODEL FOR PRODUCTIVE LISTENING: (when the problem belongs to other person) Psychologists have taught us that skillful LISTENING has a very positive effect for a person with the problem of unmet needs. A skillful listener accepts the person "where he/she is" without having to hide, distort or defend. When one feels accepted, he/she can trust the listener and feel free to use their energies and potential to interact in a search to identify their problem. Once the problem has been identx"4,ed, choices or solutions become more apparent; hence a sense of reliev and renewed self-confidence emerge. GOALS OF PRODUCTIVE LISTENING 1. Recognize person who owns a problem or has unmet needs. 2. Perceive the "feeling tones" of other and check them out with the feedback system. 3. Keep the center of interaction on the one who owns the problem so that person can be able to respond (responsible) to identify and solve their own problem. 4. As a listener, I must keep my needs separate from those of the other person. 5. As a listener, I must be aware of when my own needs impose on my ability to listen. SENDER LISTENER think think e d n e feel c Feedback c feel 0 0 d d e e Recognizing Problem Reflecting the The Facts Ownership Feeling Example: "You feel pretty worried about your exam marks." > s 1 t 1 . When you, the listener, have decided what feeling has been sent, then phrase your listening response. Either the feeling or the facts can be stated first. Example: SENDER: "I don' t know if I 'm going to pass my courses with all those D' s I have on my tests." LISTENER: (as above) "When you get low grades on test you feel pretty worried." HT:RC(WP)P1R : a- WON A MODEL FOR PRODUCTIVE CONFRONTATION (when my needs are not being met) If we avoid confronting another person about behavior we don't accept, we risk an accumulation of negative feelings that may cause us to use power, be retaliatory or given in permissively by trying to show accep- tance dishonestly. When the relationship has high quality, one will usually modify behavior when he/she is made aware that it is imposing on someone he/she values. A. Appropriate when another's behavior is imposing on my meeting my needs. 'yam B. Appropriate when I feel positive about another's behavior. An excellent method of positive reinforcement of behaviors that you like. GOALS OF PRODUCTIVE CONFRONTATION 1. Preserve the other person's self esteem. r x ; 2. Communicate my honest feelings no matter how strong and let other`.`K'l know how his/her behavior imposts on me. '' 3. Leave the responsibility for behavior change with other person and reduce the risks of damaging our relationship. 4. Must listen to the response of the other person to my confrontation. An ideal confrontation includes the three following elements (elements may be stated in any order): My Feeling Non-blameful Description The Effect Other's of Other's Behavior Behavior has on Me Stating my primary Gives other clear under- If other person can feeling helps other standing of what he/she see how his/her be- to know the impact has done. havior is imposing of his/her behavior. on my needs, he/she Non-blameful terms reduces will be likely to chances of other's need choose a different to react defensively. behavior, especially if our relationship is of high quality. E r MY Feeling hon-blameful Description Of Other's BehaviorThe Effect Other's � Behavior has on Me This compartment will be vacant if MY problem has to do with values rather than behavior. EXAMPLE: "I feel competed with when students are visiting because I can't during class time Present the infor- mation that I have prepared." You MUST remember to LISTEN to the responses to Your CONFRONTATIO order to help identify other's needs and avoid possible power stN in struggles. HT:RC(WP)P3R r r PRTTERNS OF COMIUNICATION IN CONFLICT SITUATIONS I. Unproductive patterns of communication for collaborative conflict Management: A. BLA11ING Words Body Insides Accusatory Finpe=-pointing I ayr. lonely, Condescending nverpoz•-ering unsuccessful, afraid B. PLACATING Agreeing constantly; Helpless I feel like accommodating nothing; worthless C. COMPUTING Ultra-reasonable Expressionless; rigidly calm I am vulnerable D. DISTRACTING Irrelevant Angular; Nobody cares; dizzy I am scared. II. Productive patterns of collaborative conflict management: A. LEVELLING -- words, body, insides of the person are congruent; going in the same direction. Levelling does not mean that the person tells "everything" he/she knows and feels; but that the communication responses are an accurate representation of the person at the moment. A leveller typically follows the rules for giving and receiving Effective feedback (see additional handout). m. —r eex:L•—•��®.w WPI e — ---- X01- 4 STRATEGIES At7B TACTICS I11 CONFLICT You can move a conflict in one of four directions: 1. Avoid 2. Escalate 3. Maintain 4. De-escalate All are useful at different times. The choice of which one(s) to use should be based on the desired outcome of the conflict. Below are some tactics (specific behaviors) that typically move conflicts in one of the four directions. Usedwell or poorly Resulting in.: I. !voidance �— - postponement using formal rules changing the physical environment tacit coordination (exp: agreeing on votes before a meeting) gunnysacking (saving up feelings until later then they become explosive) coercive (exp: nulling rank) refusing to rewguize the conflict fogging (agreeing with part of a criticism) linguistic manipulation (exp: "There's no conflict; just a slight disagreement.") I II. Escalation--involvement in the conflict increases;issuc:s are -nor= sharply defined; number of issues increase; and parties often polarize. i r labelling (naming the other or the relationship) E issue expansion (connect many other Issues to the ones in the conflict) MWWW-a NOW� Strategies and Tactics - page 2 II. Escalation (continued) coalition formation (to increase power) threats constricting the other (exps: allowing only a certain time for a conflict; restricting access to an important person in a conflict) III. Iiaintenance--neither reducing nor escalating the conflict Quid pro quo (getting something for something) agreement on relational rules (how to conduct the conflict) combine escalation and reduction tactics { IV. De-escalation--reducing the conflict fractionate (break the issues into small„ manageable units) ask for more information about the conflict metacommunication (discuss the relationship) response to all levels of the conflict (thoughts and feelings) compromise establish outside criteria for managing the conflict (decide how decisions will be rade.) i ISSN IDENTIFICATION AND GOAT. NEGOTIATION IN CONFLICT SITUATIONS Below are several suggestions for ident1fying issues in a conflict: 1. Clarify the content and feelings of the conflict participants by paraphrasing them before speaking.gi Check o your clarifications with the person(s) you are paraphrasing: your perceptions could be inaccurate especially in a tense situation. 2. Dake observations (not interpretations) of the conflict participants' words (how they talk about the conflict), nonverbals, and extraverbals for a more accurate assessment of the issues and for feedback to self and others about the effets each is having on the conflict process. For example, someone who calls the conflict a "battle" will be viewing the conflict and its consequences differently from one who labels it a "disagreement." A voice that indicates anner along with words that do not should give -ou clues that you do not have all th information from the other that you need. Ask the person for clarification, based on your observation. 3. locus on the incongruities between verbals and nonverbals to surface issues in the conflict. 4. Focus on aad rake ctLservations of the coms"nication patterns psrticlp.-nts rre using, e.g. , blaming. placating, coerputinr, and distractins petterr.e. sl yourself and ot`iers hoe• the communication patterns are rroliferatinr t-e conflict issues and affecting the ranarer;ent of the conflict. 5. Focus on the 'effects the conflict process is having on the participants. Verbalize the effects as you interpret them and/or ask other participants to verbalize the effects. Often the way people behave in a conflict is indicative of the way they behave that creates the conflict in the first place; and it is easier to deal with information that is being generated at the momrnt than to argue about who did what in the past. 6. Focus on dyak or group themes, e.g., trust, acceptance, control of information, perception and feelings. 7. In every conflict there are requests of the others in the conflict. State your requests clearly and ask what the other(s) is requesting of you, both materially and emotionally. �. Ask yourself what all conflict participants are feeling in terms of their self esteem and power, two common issues in a conflict. People must have a feeling Of poker (pan ability to influence) and confidence in order to cooperate authentically. 9. Clar1f9 the events that typically trigger the actual conflict. Those events may give you clues about the conflict issues. r' Issue Identification/Goal Fegotiation Below are several suggestions about hot- to negotiate goals productively in a conflict. Identifyinp issues and dealing with theta effectively are two of the most important stills to develop in conflict management.** 1. Begin the negotiation session (even an informal one) with the points of agreement, no matter how vague, instead of the points of disagreement. This helps give people cowwn goals and some sense of the interdependence they share. 2. Try to make choices available to the parties involved. People tend to become defensive when they are being controlled by having no options available to theta. In destructive cont lict b ebavior, options are closed off instead of opened up. 3. Treat otter persons as persons and not as tUings only. I1ake ci-oices based on an appreciation of the other's role instead of just thinking that the person is a "thing" blocking your goals. A good tray to keep the conflict interpersonal is to I.eep clear the differences between your guesses about the meaning of certain behavior to participants and the behavior that you can actually observe. Telling another that you Isnot: what he/she is feeling or thinI.ing is a "sure!' way to escalate the conflict. Be PESPECTF11L OF THE OWER. �. 4. Discriminate as to when and where to control is to be exercised. People who always try to exerc se power. expeclally coercively, are conflict "gangsters," trying to be one-up on others. A low level of trust is usually generated, and later conflict will likely emerge because of the low trust. 3. Take responsibility for the accuracy+ of Zour cos®unication. That is, take responsibility for your part in the conflict and Z'P the feelings and perceptions you have about the situation. If you are in the conflict, you must have a part in creating it, even if that part is withdrawal. 6. State goals in terms of do-ables. When goals are do-able, you can tell whether they are being achieved or not, and adjust accordingly. In the case of a job, a do-able goal would be to increase sales by 40 per cent over last year as opposed to saying "I want to improve." i 7. Deal with both content and relationship goals in the conflict. Participants want certain beliefs advanced, certain behavior changed, hanks performed, and promises trade, but they also want to define the conflict differently, e.g., hop: they go about conflict, who has control, etc. Remember that the dual goals in most conflict are to 1) reach agreement and Z) enhance the relationship for future commtmication. Both are equally important. S. Include emotional data as well as "objective" data when goals are formulated. People always have reasons for what they do, even though their reasons may not be your reasons. Therefore, d1scounting some reasons because they are "only emotional" is not productive for the relationship. Talk about your feelings and encourage others to talk about theirs. If this is not done the agreements reached are likely to be shallow. Issue Identification/Goal Negotiation 9. Try to avoid polarizing into separate groups too early, or polarizing your position too early in the goal negotiations. There is nothing inherently wrong with polarizing, but the practice does not work very well. If groups get identified as totally aligned with one point of view, and refuse to listen to other points of view, they will have less chance for compromise if compromise is necessary. When people get ego involved with a position, they change much less over time. 10. Decide which goals are actually incompatible at the moment and which ones only seeti to be incompatible. Some incompatibilities never change--people feel so strongly about their side of the issue that they are unchangeable. Sometimes these conflict goals can be sidestepped or tabled for another time and the Foals ti:at are negotichle can be dealt nit?,. Try to discourape the attitude of "If you don't agree -it,i we about this ir.portant issue, then you can't agree with me about anythinp." 11. Avoid reaching easy agreement on goals by premature voting, by giving away your power to some authority, or by using chance measures (flipping coins) when the seriousness of the conflict suggests more careful attention to the negotiation. Often a group has to redo a conflict because the resolution reached the first time around was totally unrealistic, or did not take in account the deep feelings of the participants involved. 12. If you seem to be stuck, and no one can agree on anything; discuss the extent to which you are related as groups or as individuals in the group. Sometime reminding each other of your interdependence serves the function of breskiP7 down excessive stubbornness that gets in the way of advancement of new goals. F Remind others that if everyone could get exactly What he or she wants, you 4., wouldn't be in conflict--it would already be happily resolved. Groups dorlt need each other, and individuals aren't interdependent, seldom are involved in conflict, since the activity of conflict is so stressful and uncor!fortable to many people. 13. In personal conflict, it is usually a good idea to avoid making stands and then giving in as a ploy. People catch on to the ruse, and your credibility is theca lowered. 14. Avoid stating_goals in terns of winning and losing. Talk in terms of what is ,est for the common good. If a win-lose orientation seems inevitable, before final decisions are made, assess again the degree of interdependence of the participants. What is "lost" in the future by "winning" noel? 15. State empathetic feelings when you have thy+. Show understanding of the other point of view when you feel it even if you make it clear that you disagree with the other side. Your understanding enhances the productive nature of the negotiations, and does not decrease your chances of getting what you want. 16. Suggest outside assistance when you feel this might be necessary and acceptable by other parties in the conflict. Sometimes participants in a conflict are too close to the situation to suggest any more productive avenues. This is the time to ask for help from an appropriate third party. 17. Observe the rules of giving and receiving feedback (see additional handout.) 04Adepted in large part frost Doing Conflict: Communication in Interpersonal Conflict by Joyce Frost and William Wilmot, in press. BECOI•;ING MORE RESPONSIBLE. . . . Here are some specific ways we can be responsible to ourselves and to others in groups: Limiting our talking time to our fair share. When there are ten people in the group, we are entitled to roughly one-tenth of the total talking time. Not interrupting people who are speaking. We can even leave space after each speaker, counting to five, taking a few deep breaths, before speaking. Becoming a good listener. Good listening is as important as good speaking. It' s important not to withdraw when not speaking; good listening is active participation. Getting and giving support. We can help each other be aware of and interrupt patterns of domination, as well as affirm each other as we move away from those ways. It is important that women support and challenge each other. It is also important that women break out of their conditioned role of looking after men' s needs (while ignoring their own) . Not giving answers and solutions. We can give our opinions in a manner which says we believe our ideas to be valuable, but no more important than other's ideas. We can also share learning or growth experiences - how things have worked for us. Relaxing. The group will do fine without our anxiety attacks. Not speaking on every subject. We need not share every idea we have -- at least not with the whole group. Not putting others down. We need to check ourselves when we are about to attack or "one-up" the other. . . We can ask ourselves: "Why am I doing this? What am I feeling? What do i need?" Nurturing democratic group process. Learning democratic methods and adopting democratic structures and procedures will improve our group process. Interrupting other's oppressive behavior. We should take responsibility for interrupting another who is exhibiting behavior which is oppressive to others and prohibits his own growth. It is no act of friendship to allow friends to continue dominating those around them. We need to learn caring and forthright ways of doing this. Don't speak for others. Instead of saying "A lot of us think. . ." or "What so-and-so meant was. " say what you think (or feel , or meant) . i t� WHO IS RIGHT or WHAT IS RIGHT? Too often, "Who is Right" becomes more important than "What is Right. " Improvement comes only when each of us stops trying to "save face" and begins to make more decisions on the basis of "What is Right. " As we do more of this , we will Find that co-wcrkers, subordinates , etc. come up with better and better ideas. . . "Sacred Cow" policies will be dropped. Tensions between decision makers and implementers will be greatly reduced. Each of us must put forth a little extra effort to change our thinking in this regard. . . but it is well worth the effort. 5 Honorable Mayor and Members of the City Council City of Tigard P. O. Box 23397 Tigard, OR 97223 I think the above about sums up the final things I was trying to say to you last night. . . . No, it' s not original. I don' t know who wrote it originally, and it' s been para- phrased a number of times to fit management training classes. . . but it still makes a lot of sense. You are very special, unique individuals. . . and I think you have the potential to be a great working TEAM as you pool all of your individual resources together. I feel honored to be a part of your goals-setting/ground- rules development process. . . and if I 've helped you gain some insight into your working relationships, that is very rewarding to me. The best to you all, Sincerely, P.S. Another afterthought: The enclosed reprint from a Leadership Effectiveness Training / class we did here at the City / might be informative and useful. . . THE RISKS OF USING THE TWELVE ROADBLOCKS LEADER EFFECTIVENESS TRAINING Part 1 Workbook Supplement i Published by Effectiveness Training, Inc. 531 Stevens Avenue ' Solana Beach, California 92075 * E e[tiveness T inin t f i THE RISKS OF USING THE TWELVE ROADBLOCKS 1. ORDERING, DIRECTING, COMMANDING " "You have to ") ("You must ..., •• Group members may feel resentful of the leader's power, that the leader doesn't really care about their needs. They may feel "put down" or frustrated and may respond with anger, particularly if they have strong needs that are being blocked. Fear of the leader may be increased. These "power" messages can cause the group member to stop communicating to the leader. Often group members rebel, resist, fight back, test, refuse, stand their ground; or if the leader is too powerful, complain to other workers, agitate, spread dissent. In front of others, orders and commands can make a group member feel embarrassed. 2. WARNING, ADMONISHING, THREATENING ("You had better ...," "I£ you don't, then ...") This is really a form of ordering, only the display of power is reserved for a time in the future. Again, this kind of message may cause group members to feel that their needs are being frustrated. They may feel "put down," humiliated. They may resist or test whether the leader will carry through on the threat. In front of others, these messages can make group members feel embarrassed. 3. MORALIZING, PREACHING, OBLIGING ("You should ...," "You ought ...," "It is your responsibility ... Here the leader is using appeals to "outside authority" or external standards of conduct in order to persuade the group member to accept the leader's direction. This kind of message communicates lack of trust in the group member's judgment. It com- municates that the leader feels, "I know better — I am wiser than you." Group members will frequently respond to this kind of argument with a counter-argument, "Who says?" or, "I don't accept those phony values." Moralizing messages are frequently an attempt to make the group member feel guilty if he or she does not respond in the expected manner, but many group members respond to this form of manipulation with either overt or passive resistance. 4. ADVISING, GIVING SUGGESTIONS OR SOLUTIONS ("What I would do is ...," "Why don't you ...," "Let me suggest ...," "It would be best for ..." It is not true that people always want advice. Advice implies "superiority" and can make the group member feel inadequate and inferior — "I should have thought of that." The group member may respond with resistance — "I don't want to be always told what to do." Some group members feel that advice means that the leader doesn't believe they are capable of figuring the problem out for themselves. Others will feel they have let the leader down if they can't solve the problem the way the leader advised. If the advice is not sound, then the group member must spend time arguing against it, rather than coming up with a personal solution. Advice can also make group members dependent; it doesn't encourage their creative thinking. A group member may simply- respond imply-respond by feeling the leader just doesn't understand: "He'd never suggest that if he knew how bad the problem really is." Or she may respond — "When I want your advice, I'll ask for it." Lastly, if the leader's advice turns out to be wrong, the group member can duck responsibility — "She suggested it, it wasn't my idea." 5. PERSUADING WITH LOGIC, ARGUING, INSTRUCTING, LECTURING ("Do you realize ...," "Here is why you are wrong ...... "The facts are " "Yes, but ...") While group members sometimes like to learn from their leaders, this type of message may produce defensiveness; group members may feel inadequate, uninformed, inferior, or stupid. Logical arguments, too, invoke counter-arguments. Nobody likes to be labeled as "wrong" and told that the leader's idea is "right" and should be adopted. Arguing against the group member's ideas may cause him to defend his position even more strongly — "I doubt that those other people knew what they were doing; I know this system inside out, and I can make it work." Group members may react to their leader's lectures the same way children respond to their parents' lectures — "You always think you have all the answers." It has often been demonstrated that just because you have the facts and Iogic on your side does not mean that people will accept your point of view. 4 6. JUDGING, CRITICIZING, DISAGREEING, BLAMING ("You are acting foolishly ...," —You are not thinking straight , More than any other type of message, this makes the group member feel inadequate, inferior, incompetent, bad, or stupid. Often group members respond very defensively — nobody likes to be wrong. Evaluation cuts off communication — "I won't let her know what my problems are when all she does is use them against me." Because of the lead- er's psychological size, a group member may accept the leader's momentary evaluation as being a generally true appraisal of his skills — "I'm lousy with people," or, "i'm a bad organizer." These evaluations may become incorporated in the group member's self-image, and criticism which may have been in response to temporary frustration may continue to influence the group member's career. Another response of group members to criticism is to evaluate right back, even though they may not express it openly — "You're not so hot with people either, particularly me." Remember the adage, "Judge not, lest you be judged." 7. PRAISING, AGREEING, EVALUATING POSITIVELY, APPROVING ("You've done a good job ...," "I approve of ... ") Praising is really just a positive version of judging and evaluating. As a result, praise may not always have the effects we have generally assumed. If the group mem- ber knows that the leader judges positively, he can infer that the leader also judges negatively. Then, too, when the leader frequently judges positively, the absence of it may be interpreted by the group member as a negative judgment — "She must not have liked my presentation, she didn't say anything." A positive evaluation that doesn't fit the group member's self-evaluation, or is overdone, may be perceived as false or t'nreaten- ing — "He's trying to snow me," or as manipulative — "What does he want from me now." Both praise and agreeing often stop communication from the group member — "She's only agreeing with me because she doesn't really understand my feelings," or "He knows he doesn't have to listen to me anymore if he agrees with me." Praise in front of others may also embarrass the group member or generate competitiveness with others. But most of all, praise invariably tags the leader as "being superior" — the right to evaluate another implies that you "know" what is good or bad. S. NAME--CALLING, RIDICULING, SHAMING ("You're a sloppy worker ...," "Who hired you in the first place ...," "You have loused up this whole contract ...") Such messages can have a devastating effect on the self-image of a group member. They can make a group member feel unworthy, bad, inferior. The most frequent response of group members to such messages is to give one.back to the leader — "You're not so smart yourself." "How'd you ever get to be leader of this place?" When group members get such messages from a leader who is trying to influence them, they are quite unlikely • - d to change by looking at themselves realistically. Instead, they can zero in on the leader's unfair message and excuse themselves — "I work harder than anyone around this place — nobody ever gives a damn." J. INTI ERPRETING, ANALYZING, DIAGNOSING ("What you need is ...," "Your problem is ...," "You don't really mean that ...") To tell a group member what she is "really" feeli: g. what her "real" motives are, or why she is behaving the way she is can be boli: very threatening and very maddening — "She always thinks she has the answers to everything, including my feelings." Playing "psychoanalyst" with group members is dangerous and frustrating to the group member. If your analysis is wrong, the group member resists; if it is "right," the group member can feel exposed, trapped, naked. The "here-is-what-you-need" message implies that the leader is superior — knows more than the group member. Group members get resentful i and angry with leaders when they interpret their motives. Interpretations are likely to stop communication from group members rather than encourage them to tell the leader more. 10. REASSURING, SYMPATHIZING, CONSOLING, SUPPORTING ("Don't worry ...," "You'llfeel better ...," "It's not so bad ") Leaders often send these messages to group members without understanding that they can have negative effects. To reassure a group member may make him feel that you don't understand — "It's easy for her to say that, but she doesn't have to work with a bunch of angry customers." Supporting messages to the group member also convey, "I'm not feeling comfortable having you feel upset, I can't accept such feelings; start feeling happy." If things do not "turn out alright" for the group member, he may even feel misled by you, particularly if you gloss over legitimate concerns and accurate perceptions in order to get him prepared to face the situation. He may also disbelieve you — "You're just saying that to make me feel better." F 11. PROBING, QUESTIONING, INTERROGATING ("Why "Who ...... "What ...... "How ...." "Where "When ") � Questioning and probing frequeritly make group members feel that they are being asked to defend or justify their feelings. Once again there is some implication that the ' leader is in a position to evaluate whether the group member's feelings are justified or 4 r not. This is why the group member may have the feeling of being on the "witness stand" whenever he tries to explain a new idea or feeling to the leader. The group member may also feel that his privacy is being invaded. Or he may feel that the ques- to take a position tioner is trying to force him f irr tation that reveal questioner ation that can sedi e d- against him. Also there may be some feeling o ing the manner in which the group member can talk about his feelings, rather than hem in the manner which seems most consistent allowing the group member to express t with his feelings. �2, WITHDR.AWING, DISTRACTING, HUMORING, DIVERTING did you read a ("We can discuss it later ...," "That reminds me ..., newspaper last?" "When did they make you President of the company?") you do Such responses make group members feel you are not interested anders thateel rejected. not care enough to want to understand. They can make group me ade to feel frustrated or even angry by such responses. Group members will be m get the group Humoring and kidding are ways of attempting to change the subject, to roblems." The message they convey to the group member, member's mind "off her p however, is either her feelings are not important, not "worthy" of discussion, or that the leader finds her feelings unacceptable and is trying to avoordca ed ho YPif�Y the he group member's response to this is, "If she really liked me, :y member allows wouldn't just brush me off like this." As a result, eveehowedirninishcdn the p and frequently { herself to be "joked-ouc" of her feelings, she feels somehow o rted and become angry, hostile, and resistant. she will refuse to be dive f e �